Will We See Loved Ones Again In Heaven?
Rev. Kevin S. Johnson

    

One thing new believers have in common with those who have been Christians a long time is wondering what heaven will be like. While the Lord has given us some wonderful clues, He has not revealed His entire plan to us. In fact, as the Apostle Paul tells us in 1 Corinthians 2:9, heaven will consist of:

"Things which eye has not seen and ear has not heard, and which have not entered the heart of man, all that God has prepared for those who love Him."

One question frequently asked is "Will I see my loved ones in heaven?" The answer to this question is an unequivocal yes, if the loved one who has died knew Jesus Christ as his or her personal Savior here on Earth in this part of life.

Jesus gave us insight into this when He spoke of the historical account of the rich man and Lazarus (see Luke 16:20). We know this story is historical because Jesus never used proper names in His parables. Lazarus, though he had been a beggar and ill all of his life, had trusted God and was therefore allowed into paradise or Abraham's Bosom. The rich man had ignored God and Lazarus during his life, so he was confined to a place called torments where the damned are sent to await their final judgment when they will be sent to the lake of fire. The rich man was in agony but he still retained memory of his earthly siblings and asked Abraham (who he could see in heaven but could not approach because of some gulf, perhaps like an unseen force field that separated them, but which still allowed them to see and speak to each other) to send Lazarus back from the dead to warn his brothers about the torment that awaited them. This shows that even in hell we do not lose our memories of our earthly family. The rich man also recognized Lazarus whom he had known back on earth.

We are given a promise in Philippians 3:20-21 where we are told "But our citizenship is in heaven. And we eagerly await a Saviour from there, the Lord Jesus Christ, Who, by the power that enables Him to bring everything under His ontrol, will transform our lowly bodies so that they will be like His glorious body." This means that we can expect to have the same thing happen to our physical bodies that Jesus had happen to His. Both should contain similar properties. If His body was raised with the same facial and distinguishable features He had before His death, we can likewise expect to be "like His glorious body" recognizable as ourselves so we could continue to know and fellowship with our loved ones. This would only make sense as God is the ultimate Defender of truly loving relationships that are based in His precious promises.

The Gospels teach that the resurrected Jesus was recognized by the disciples on many occasions and even allowed them to touch His body. This enabled them to give sensory verification to the fact it was truly Jesus and not a ghost or someone else. Over 500 people saw Him after He was raised from the dead. These were contemporaries of Jesus who would have been in a position to have seen Him before with their own eyes and could tell if He was the same person they had known previous to the crucifixion. Many of these eyewitnesses would later give their lives for the sake of bearing witness to the fact that Jesus had indeed risen from the dead. If we are going to be like Him in the resurrection we can also expect to be recognized by those who love us.

We must remember that it was God Who created the RNA and DNA Helix codes that gives all human beings a distinctive set of chromosomes so that none of us ven have the same fingerprints! Each of these genetic combinations can be reduced to a mathematical formula that is certainly stored in the memory of the God Who created them in the first place. The curse of death and disease will be removed when He resurrects those that belong to Him. In this process the identity of His loved ones will most certainly be preserved since He made sure that each one was totally unique and identifiable to begin with!

In chapter 14 of John's Gospel, Jesus promised:

"Let not your heart be troubled; believe in God, believe also in Me. In My Father's house are many dwelling places; if it were not so, I would have told you; for I go to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again and receive you to Myself, that where I am there you may be also."

Likewise, Paul states in 1 Thessalonians 4:13-18:

"But we do not want you to be uninformed, brethren, about those who are asleep, that you may not grieve, as do the rest who have no hope. For if we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so God will bring with Him those who have fallen asleep in Jesus. For this we say to you by the word of the Lord, that we who are alive, and remain until the coming of the Lord, shall not precede those who have fallen asleep. For the Lord Himself shall descend from heaven with a shout, with the voice of the archangel, and with the trumpet of God; and the dead in Christ shall rise first. Then we who are alive and remain shall be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air, and thus we shall always be with the Lord. Therefore comfort one another with these words."

The testimony of Paul, and of Jesus, our Lord is clear. We will be joyfully reunited with our loved ones in eternity if they died believing in the Gospel. We will be reunited with them in heaven at our death, or on the way to Heaven if we see the translation or rapture of the saints. We will all be present at the resurrection of the dead where we receive a glorified physical body such as Jesus now has. With those bodies we will never grow tired or become ill. We will be enabled to enjoy the new heavens and the new earth the Bible tells us God will create. Never let anyone else tell you otherwise as some will attempt to deprive you of this, our great hope. We can be certain of our destiny because it is based on the sure promises of our God Who cannot lie! As believers we live "in hope of eternal life, which God, that cannot lie, promised before the world began!" (Titus 1:2)

 



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